Would You Let Others Walk All Over Your Garden?

I can’t imagine a world where we allowed strangers to come in our yards and walk all over the place destroying our plants and vegetation. Like seriously most people would blow a fuse to see all their hard work being trampled over. But why don’t parents get equally outraged sending their kids to school all day where strangers teach them all kinds of abusive behaviours? The deeper issue we have is that most people don’t realize they can create the most beautiful garden in their home as a family unit. We have accepted fundamental limitations for so long that no one even dares to question the damage being done anymore. When we decided to home educate our kids we had to think differently then the way we were raised because we knew with certainty that we hadn’t realized our full potential yet. The niggling inside pushed us to take massive action stepping out of the normalized environment so that we could see ourselves differently and prepare our kids in a way that was totally new to us. The outcome has been nothing short of amazing, we are nurturing our seeds in a completely new way where we remove all the weeds and tend to it daily to ensure the most incredible genius beings are able to express themselves effectively and thrive. I wouldn’t change it for the world because now we are seeing the fruits of our labour. The most rewarding job is being the best parent to your offspring and seeing them transcend the limitations you once struggled wth. How I see parenting now and raising children very intentionally is that it is our prerogative to nurture and support our children’s development to ensure they reach their utmost potential. Leaving them with anyone else who doesn’t value the same outcome as much as we do would be no different then having someone else destroy the vegetable garden disrupting the harvest we worked so hard to create. If children are the future and we want to see real change for them then we must start in our homes enabling and supporting the next generation to mature and blossom to be stable reasoning adults who can see the issues we have collectively and bring about real solutions. Leaving them to the school system is ensuring their inevitable fall into abuse and the continued cycle to repeat again. It’s up to the parents to change the patterns at home because if it isn’t obvious yet, no one else cares about your children’s life and success outcome as much as you do. We have used very specific tools to redirect our lives at home at a far more superior expedited rate, reach out to learn more. 

- Leah Spehar